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What You Need to Know about The Colour of SEX?



The way you view colour determines how you react to it and the colour you give to sex determines how you engage in it and how you view it.

  • White represents purity,holiness,innocence,equality,new beginnings, immaculate and neat,self-sufficient, pristine and open.If your favorite color is white, it will reflect in your personality.
  • Red represents passion,energy action,desire
  • Orange represents adventure and risk taking,social communication and interaction,friendship and divorce.
  • Yellow represents mind and intellect,happiness and fun,communication and new ideas.
  • Green represents harmony and balance,hope and growth
  • Blue represents communication,peace,calm,honesty,authority,wisdom and religion
  • Pink represents unconditional love,nurturing,compassion and hope
  • Brown represents stability,structure,security,natural and wholesome
  • Black represents mystery,power and control
  • Indigo represents integrity,intuition,wisdom,structure and order
  • Gold represents success,wealth,prestige and luxury.

Sexual behaviour is instinctual but also social.It is the social factors that colours the sex and determines how it is engaged in and viewed.If sexual behaviour can be social then we can confidently say this:

Sexual behaviour is primarily learned through observation as well as through the direct experience of punishment and rewards.

Let me break it down: This simply means your sexual behaviour now is as a results of your experiences through childhood and the things that happened to you .For example,if you were bathing at the school bathroom and your friends tells you that you have a small dick ,and they laugh at you.This will determine your confidence during and after sex.For the ladies ,bad experiences like having big vulva and small breast can be a bad experience.Excessively big penis can both a source of worry and confidence at the same time.Statements like “He will destroy your womb with his thing” can have varied effects.

Abuse can also be a source that can colour sex.One may ask How?

A lady who has been gang raped can either be very promiscuous because she thinks she is worthless and can hate sex forever(Sex has been coloured here). Sexual abuse by close relatives,like uncle father,brother etc can also colour sex.Some women even have sex with their sons.I have even heard of a man who has slept with all his daughters.These group of people will also have a particular colour for sex.


Pornography in reality gives an exaggerated and sometimes distorted view of sex.Without sounding judgemental ,porn can affect sex negatively.For example,we have a term in psychology called “Habituation”. It means when you are exposed to something of excitation for a long time,it looses its excitement.So long exposure to porn can cause sexual dysfunction and sometimes perversion like masturbation,bestiality and anal sex.

There are some married men who cannot have sex with their wives unless they masturbate.It has also been shown that mothers who expose their sons can cause damage to them.


When it comes to orgasm,it has been noted that women are usually at the wrong end.Some women suffer frigidity,thus, no matter what you do ,they seem not to cum.This may be due to the factors above.Men are therefore advised to learn the art of foreplay and stop putting pressure on women to cum during penetration because much of orgasmic pleasures comes from the clitoris.Foreplay is the woman’s heaven,kissing,touching,clitoral massage among others is very key .It is important to also note that women who do not respect their partners by insulting them can cause their erectile dysfunction .When a woman for example,says “is that all your penis “?,it can cause so much emotional pains to the guy and he might not achieve full erection.With some nice words and caressing ,the penis you see as small can gain its full capacity.Respect is everything!

“All these statement can cause permanent damage and therefore its paramount to note that the way you see sex and the colour you give sex is also informed by your self concept.People with high self esteem enjoy sex better as compared to people with low self esteem.”

Masochism / Sadism/ Frotlenism

  • Masochism- When people can only enjoy sex when they are beaten or injured.
  • Sadism – When people can only enjoy the sex when they are causing pain to the one they are having sex with.
  • Frotlenism- Enjoying sex when you rub your genitals against the opposite sex still in your clothes

These preservation are also determined by the social experiences,some want wild sex ,some without violence,like doggy.

In conclusion,the colour we give to sex is usually based on experiences which sometimes can be harmful but thankfully we can change the colour with proper guidance.

With the above statements,I can boldly say the Colour of SEX is LOVE.

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Why Am I Here On This Earth?




As humans,we are peculiarly susceptible to utter awful aphorisms ,especially in our doleful dumps.You hear many people iterate and reiterate this words ” Its My Life And I Get To Choose What I Want To Do With It”. You can relate right? .Well you have the right to voice out your opinion but have you sat down to really ask yourself WHY YOU WERE GIVEN THAT LIFE TO BE ON THIS EARTH?

I strongly believe every Tom,Dick and Harry in the world was born into this earth for a Purpose.To Solve a specific problem.And it is your responsibility to find that purpose and start living it.Until you discover that purpose,then you start living a life full of fulfillment .

Think about it this way.Anytime you decide to live a life your own way as you always say ,you deprive many people the opportunity to make it in life and also fulfill purpose.Why ,because the success of many people are enshrined in your success(purpose). So until you make it these people will continue to live an average live full of reproach and retrogression.

  • Listen,your purpose is your compass.
  • It guides you through storms and chaos.
  • It keeps you steady and focused in a world hell bent on meaningless distractions.
  • Without purpose life becomes meaningless.It easily leads you to a mindset of depression,anxiety and stress.

FACT : The average person lives for just 28,251 days ,so instead of wasting your life why not ask yourself these questions?

  • How Do I Find This Purpose ?
  • What Problem Was I Created To Solve ?
  • What Problem Am I Highly Motivated To Solve?
  • What Is My Assignment On This Earth?
  • Why Did The Creator Make Me?….The List Goes On…..


I have many people asking me this question any time I talk about purpose.And the truth of the matter is that ,one can only discover purpose by first looking withing yourself and asking important questions.


  • What Do You Like Doing Most ?
  • What Are You Passionate About ?
  • What Job or Business Will You Still Do Even If You Are Not Paid ?
  • What Do You Aspire To Do That Can Give You A sense Of Fulfillment ?

Answers to some of these questions are tied and linked to your Purpose.Discover and Live That Fulfilling Life You Have Always Dreamed of .

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Breaking News : Akuapem Poloo Goes to Jail for 90 Days Over Son’s Birthday Photoshoot




Rosemond Brown,a Ghanaian Actress, populary known as Akuapem Poloo has been sentenced to three months in prison by the Accra Circuit Court

The Court in its judgement explained that the reason behind this harsh judgement is to use this case to serve as deterrent to the general public.

The Court also disclosed that the pregnancy test of the accused was negative.

Around July last year, Akuapem Poloo engaged the wrong side of the law after she posted a partially nude photo of herself and her son online as part of her son’s 7th birthday.

She pleaded guilty to three charges leveled against her and this include

  • The publication of obscene materials
  • Engaging in domestic violence in ways which undermine the privacy and integrity of another person
  • Finally engaging in domestic violence which can dent the dignity of another human being.

On Wednesday, the Accra Circuit court convicted her  for publishing nude photos of herself and son.

The judge in her ruling explained that she will serve 90 days in jail simultaneously

It is reported that the accused, Akuapem Poloo broke down into tears after the sentencing.

More soon…….

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Prison Break : Over 1500 Inmates Escape Prison In Nigeria




Information reaching indicates that over 1500 inmates have been freed at the Owerri Correctional Prison after a prison break spearheaded by unknown gunmen.

The perpetrators decimated the IMO State Police Command Headquarters situated in Owerri,burnt and destroyed vehicles and other properties they could lay hands on.

They did not end there,but went on to free suspects in almost all the cells at the State Criminal Investigation Department of the Command.

According to sources close to the scene , the perpetrators invaded the premises on Monday morning, around 1am to 3am.

It is reported that the gunmen chanted at the Government House Roundabout for close to an hour before attacking the premises.

They meandered their way into the facility with the aid of explosives and dynamite and told the inmates to go home because Christ has resurrected and they therefore don’t have any reason to be there.

More Soon……

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